Fine, I’ll Be Forgiving
Forgiving isn’t just something that’s done once, in order to forget about the past. It’s required daily – specifically with the people who I’m closest to. Let’s take my husband, for instance. I can choose not to forgive him for something, which means I’m also choosing to hold onto a grudge.
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Marriage allows the art of forgiveness to be practiced enough to perfect it! Maybe that’s just mine? Ha! No, but wow. I never thought I’d get so familiar with the need to forgive someone!
If I choose to hold onto a grudge, the next thing I know is I’ll also be harboring bitterness. The more bitter I become, the more hard-hearted I’ll be to my husband. Then I’ll start to get increasingly more negative and sarcastic. For some, that’s what leads to the love between two people to start becoming virtually non-existent.
Don’t Let the Bedbugs Bite
One of the most necessary things to practice in marriage, is never going to bed angry..ever. Yes, that means even if he refuses to budge on apologizing for the things that he might’ve done wrong. I can still forgive him, even without this. I’m still working on this one! It doesn’t come naturally, that’s for sure.
Not going to bed angry is a detrimental to practice, and will help me to remain emotionally healthy. Here’s a couple of quotes that I like a lot, in regards to forgiveness:
- “Forgiving doesn’t make the other person right – it just makes me free.”
- “Not offering forgiveness damages the vessel that stores it, worse than anyone you can spit it on.”
There should be no one that I hold back forgiveness from in my life. I certainly shouldn’t be holding onto any grudges against my husband. I also understand this is MUCH easier said than done!
By forgiving others, I’m doing myself a favor too. It’s then that I’m free to truly live!
““If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you.” Matthew 6:14 NLT